Lesson 30 | How to Stay Centered in Stressful Times (Simple Yoga Practices for Emotional Balance)

Hello and welcome, fellow traveler on the path of Gen X midlife transformation! I'm Viviane Wolfe of Zen X Yoga, and if you’ve been feeling the world is a little chaotic lately, you’re not alone. The stresses of midlife, career, family, and a fast-paced world can easily throw us off balance.

This is our Lesson #30, and it’s a crucial one: We’re going to explore simple, practical ways you can stay centered during stressful times. We’ll create more emotional balance, even when things feel a little chaotic, through a gentle seated yoga practice, the powerful Ujjayi breath, and crafting your own personal positive affirmations for balance.

This entire practice is designed to be accessible, which is why I’m demonstrating it from my swiveling office chair, even with my furry assistant making a guest appearance! If a bit of chaos is present in the video, it just proves we can find peace anywhere.

Your Seated Practice: Grounding Movement

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Finding your center begins with grounding your body. For this practice, sit at the edge of your chair so your feet are flat on the ground. Close your eyes for a moment and just tune in to your body.

• Feel the soles of your feet on the earth.

• Feel where your body meets the chair.

• Notice the sounds, the air, and the clothing on your skin.

Just let everything be as it is, creating an inner resource of peace and well-being.

1. Shake it Out

When stress takes hold, energy gets trapped. Let's shake it out!

• Start by shaking out your hands and wrists.

• Allow the movement to travel up your arms to your elbows and shoulders.

• Add a little shimmy in your seat. Shake out one foot, then the other.

• Wiggle and shake your whole body in any way that feels good to you. Don’t hold back! Shake your bacon!

• Take two more deep breaths and let it all go.

2. Gather and Center

Use your breath and movement to gather your energy back to your core.

• Inhale: Sweep your arms high overhead, feeling like you’re gathering up any excess, chaotic energy.

• Exhale: Bring your hands down through your midline, pressing them together over your heart center.

• Interlace your fingers and press your palms up toward the ceiling for a big stretch.

• Side Stretch: Tip over to one side, opening up the ribs and breathing into that space. Come back to center and tip to the other side.

• Gentle Twist: Allow your arms to melt down as you twist to the right, looking over your right shoulder. Use the back of the chair for a gentle assist. Inhale back to center, and then twist to the left.

3. Seated Cat-Cow

This movement brings fluidity to your spine, releasing tension held in the back and shoulders.

• Place your hands on your knees.

• Inhale (Cow): Lift your heart and your gaze, gently arching your back. Keep your head lifted slightly to avoid kinking the neck.

• Exhale (Cat): Round your back, tuck your chin to your chest, creating a deep C-shape with your spine.

• Move through this rhythm two more times, letting the breath guide the movement.

The Power of Ujjayi Breath (Breath of Victory)

Once your body is a little looser, we move to a powerful breathing technique. The Ujjayi (ooh-jah-yee) breath, or Breath of Victory, is phenomenal for calming worry, panic, or when things feel out of your control. It’s a warming breath that can be done anywhere.

1. The Sensation: Take a deep breath in through your nose. As you exhale, open your mouth and whisper a “haaaah” sound, as if you are trying to fog up a mirror. Feel that subtle constriction at the back of your throat. Repeat this once or twice.

2. The Practice: Now, seal your lips and try to create that same sensation while you breathe in and out through your nose.

3. The Sound: You'll hear a soft, oceanic sound in your skull (or maybe a little like Darth Vader!). The key is that it shouldn't feel harsh or like straining.

4. Continue for three more full rounds, keeping your jaw relaxed.

When you're finished, let your body breathe itself, and notice the shift in your nervous system.

Crafting Your Personal Affirmation for Balance

The final step in our practice is integrating mental focus. Affirmations are small, simple, positive statements in the present tense that you are actively cultivating in your life.

Take a moment to choose a simple, positive statement that resonates with you right now. Repeat it to yourself, either mentally or out loud, until you feel a resonance—a sense of truly believing the words.

Here are a few suggestions:

• I am balanced.

• I am stable and safe.

• My foundation is secure.

• I trust my intuition.

How to Use Your Affirmation Daily

An affirmation is only powerful if you integrate it into your life. Here are a few ways to keep it top of mind:

1. Post-It Power: Write it on a sticky note and place it on your desk, computer monitor, or inside your car.

2. Mirror Marker: Write it on your bathroom mirror with a dry-erase marker.

3. Driving Mantra: Repeat it to yourself while you drive or walk to work.

4. Before Sleep: Use it as the last thought you have before drifting off.

Find Your Center, Share Your Wisdom

Notice how your body feels now. Has your breath changed? Does your mind feel a little calmer? Do you feel more centered and less stressed?

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That’s it from me!

See you next time, and until then, take good care.

–Viviane